Seemingly trivial things that annoy you

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  • pblakeney
    pblakeney Posts: 27,592
    pblakeney said:

    MPs total inability to read the room.

    Repeated to emphasise my point. How it looks.
    I suppose the real question is why standard practice is in the news.
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  • Pross
    Pross Posts: 43,680

    Tashman said:

    What's wrong with the office xmas party being on expenses?

    Can f*ck off if they expect me to pay for drinks.

    If you want to go on the p*ss, pay for it yourself. Are you happy for all schools, hospitals, councils etc to also spend public money for a night out?
    Yes, of course, if it's the xmas christmas party.

    If the office party was pay-for-yourself it's not different to any after-works drinks and you'd have to allow people not to turn up in case they don't want to spend the money.

    Entirely defeats the point of it.


    What kind of miserly penny pinching lot are you. Office xmas party is part of work and if they're not paying for it, don't go, arrange your own with the people you actually like in the office.
    We always had to pay our own way when I was working in the public sector and that's how it should be. If a private sector company wants to use some of its revenue treating its staff to a meal and drinks that's a different story (I had excellent ones at the first private company I worked at, often involving a long weekend in a European city - it stopped in 2010 unsurprisingly).
  • rick_chasey
    rick_chasey Posts: 75,660
    Pfft, don't go then.
  • Pross
    Pross Posts: 43,680
    Why? It was an excuse to take an afternoon off and have a meal / get hammered with your colleagues. I don't remember anyone having an issue with paying for it themselves. Always a few talking points the next day as well considering it was the less PC days of the late 80s / early 90s. There'd be a few miserable ones who would rush their meal to get back to the office for the afternoon so they didn't have to take leave or lose any flexi time though.
  • Pross
    Pross Posts: 43,680
    Trivially annoying things - picking up a job that someone else originally designed and that is apparently close to being approved so stopping me being able to start from scratch. In this case done by an external contractor before I started.
  • rick_chasey
    rick_chasey Posts: 75,660
    edited November 2022
    Maybe I’m not used to very strict working hours culture but if you want lunch with your colleagues just go for lunch?

    Public sector pay is so dire and is getting worse by the year - let em blow off some steam ffs
  • Pross
    Pross Posts: 43,680
    edited November 2022
    We used to have a subsidised staff canteen on site so generally went for lunch on Wednesdays that were curry day and even had a drink in the NALGO club to follow (less than £1 per pint in the early 90s).

    To give an idea of the opposite end of the entitlement spectrum, when we had our Christmas trips abroad with the one company we had a young lad who joined us straight from school who was complaining to the MDs wife on the flight home that the food had been 'rubbish' (i.e. it wasn't burger and chips and too posh for his limited palate). He hadn't had to spend a penny of his own money for a 3 day trip - think it was Munich that year - and had even been allowed to take a mate with him as he didn't have a partner.
  • rick_chasey
    rick_chasey Posts: 75,660
    edited November 2022
    I see the rail workers are intent on screwing up everyone's xmas paryt on that note.

    Blown up our team lunch which is the main event.

    four 48 hr strikes, 13-14th and 16th-17th December (so whole week more or less) and again 3-4th and 6-7th, of Jan so that weeek too.
  • TheBigBean
    TheBigBean Posts: 22,079
    Pross said:

    Why? It was an excuse to take an afternoon off and have a meal / get hammered with your colleagues. I don't remember anyone having an issue with paying for it themselves. Always a few talking points the next day as well considering it was the less PC days of the late 80s / early 90s. There'd be a few miserable ones who would rush their meal to get back to the office for the afternoon so they didn't have to take leave or lose any flexi time though.

    Sounds worse to me. You're slacking off work and being paid by the tax payer. I'm not completely serious, but I can't understand why the tax payer buying a few drinks is worse than paying employees not to work.

  • Pross said:

    Why? It was an excuse to take an afternoon off and have a meal / get hammered with your colleagues. I don't remember anyone having an issue with paying for it themselves. Always a few talking points the next day as well considering it was the less PC days of the late 80s / early 90s. There'd be a few miserable ones who would rush their meal to get back to the office for the afternoon so they didn't have to take leave or lose any flexi time though.

    Sounds worse to me. You're slacking off work and being paid by the tax payer. I'm not completely serious, but I can't understand why the tax payer buying a few drinks is worse than paying employees not to work.

    maybe we should have a referendum of taxpayers to decide how much of their tax should be spent on staff jollies.

    If we assume £50 a head that is £300m just for Xmas, if we assume we will also be chipping in for babies, birthdays, weddings and leaving parties then it could easily be £0.5bn.

    And not forgetting the subsidised canteens
  • rick_chasey
    rick_chasey Posts: 75,660
    Is this forum of the view that team-building is not done by jollies?
  • kingstongraham
    kingstongraham Posts: 28,288
    edited November 2022

    Pross said:

    Why? It was an excuse to take an afternoon off and have a meal / get hammered with your colleagues. I don't remember anyone having an issue with paying for it themselves. Always a few talking points the next day as well considering it was the less PC days of the late 80s / early 90s. There'd be a few miserable ones who would rush their meal to get back to the office for the afternoon so they didn't have to take leave or lose any flexi time though.

    Sounds worse to me. You're slacking off work and being paid by the tax payer. I'm not completely serious, but I can't understand why the tax payer buying a few drinks is worse than paying employees not to work.

    maybe we should have a referendum of taxpayers to decide how much of their tax should be spent on staff jollies.

    If we assume £50 a head that is £300m just for Xmas, if we assume we will also be chipping in for babies, birthdays, weddings and leaving parties then it could easily be £0.5bn.

    And not forgetting the subsidised canteens
    Why would you assume chipping in for birthdays etc?

  • Pross
    Pross Posts: 43,680

    Pross said:

    Why? It was an excuse to take an afternoon off and have a meal / get hammered with your colleagues. I don't remember anyone having an issue with paying for it themselves. Always a few talking points the next day as well considering it was the less PC days of the late 80s / early 90s. There'd be a few miserable ones who would rush their meal to get back to the office for the afternoon so they didn't have to take leave or lose any flexi time though.

    Sounds worse to me. You're slacking off work and being paid by the tax payer. I'm not completely serious, but I can't understand why the tax payer buying a few drinks is worse than paying employees not to work.

    No-one was paying us, we had to take it as annual leave or from accrued flexi time.
  • First.Aspect
    First.Aspect Posts: 17,465

    I see the rail workers are intent on screwing up everyone's xmas paryt on that note.

    Blown up our team lunch which is the main event.

    four 48 hr strikes, 13-14th and 16th-17th December (so whole week more or less) and again 3-4th and 6-7th, of Jan so that weeek too.

    Govt and franchise owners are going to wait them out I reckon, and keep offering more or less what they are offering now. The public aren't using the train as much these days, and it is hard anyway to tell the difference between a shit service caused by strikes and the normal shit service.
  • Pross said:

    Why? It was an excuse to take an afternoon off and have a meal / get hammered with your colleagues. I don't remember anyone having an issue with paying for it themselves. Always a few talking points the next day as well considering it was the less PC days of the late 80s / early 90s. There'd be a few miserable ones who would rush their meal to get back to the office for the afternoon so they didn't have to take leave or lose any flexi time though.

    Sounds worse to me. You're slacking off work and being paid by the tax payer. I'm not completely serious, but I can't understand why the tax payer buying a few drinks is worse than paying employees not to work.

    maybe we should have a referendum of taxpayers to decide how much of their tax should be spent on staff jollies.

    If we assume £50 a head that is £300m just for Xmas, if we assume we will also be chipping in for babies, birthdays, weddings and leaving parties then it could easily be £0.5bn.

    And not forgetting the subsidised canteens
    Why would you assume chipping in for birthdays etc?

    an ex-girlfriend used to work in HR in a hospital and as the junior would be sent to a finance function to get funding for such things. I will admit this was a long time ago.

    when i worked places where Xmas lunches were expensed all of those things were as well.

  • rick_chasey
    rick_chasey Posts: 75,660
    If not the bosses should do smaller dos for their team and pay for them
  • rick_chasey
    rick_chasey Posts: 75,660
    Brexit f*cking up my hamper gifts into Sweden.
  • Stevo_666
    Stevo_666 Posts: 61,950

    I see the rail workers are intent on screwing up everyone's xmas paryt on that note.

    Blown up our team lunch which is the main event.

    four 48 hr strikes, 13-14th and 16th-17th December (so whole week more or less) and again 3-4th and 6-7th, of Jan so that weeek too.

    They really are a cunch of bunts. I shall beat them by cycling in.
    "I spent most of my money on birds, booze and fast cars: the rest of it I just squandered." [George Best]
  • TheBigBean
    TheBigBean Posts: 22,079
    They've annoyed me now. I'd arranged to visit someone on Saturday.
  • briantrumpet
    briantrumpet Posts: 20,928
    edited November 2022

    They've annoyed me now. I'd arranged to visit someone on Saturday.


    I think that's the idea.

    Well, maybe not to annoy you personally, but to get noticed by the public generally, so there's public pressure to get the dispute sorted.
  • briantrumpet
    briantrumpet Posts: 20,928
    Stevo_666 said:

    I see the rail workers are intent on screwing up everyone's xmas paryt on that note.

    Blown up our team lunch which is the main event.

    four 48 hr strikes, 13-14th and 16th-17th December (so whole week more or less) and again 3-4th and 6-7th, of Jan so that weeek too.

    They really are a cunch of bunts. I shall beat them by cycling in.

    Don't forget to use the winter bike.
  • pblakeney
    pblakeney Posts: 27,592
    edited November 2022
    Looks like the MPs got the jist of my post. 🤣🤣🤣

    "MPs reject Christmas parties on expenses."
    The above may be fact, or fiction, I may be serious, I may be jesting.
    I am not sure. You have no chance.
    Veronese68 wrote:
    PB is the most sensible person on here.
  • Stevo_666
    Stevo_666 Posts: 61,950

    Stevo_666 said:

    I see the rail workers are intent on screwing up everyone's xmas paryt on that note.

    Blown up our team lunch which is the main event.

    four 48 hr strikes, 13-14th and 16th-17th December (so whole week more or less) and again 3-4th and 6-7th, of Jan so that weeek too.

    They really are a cunch of bunts. I shall beat them by cycling in.

    Don't forget to use the winter bike.
    It's also my spring, summer and autumn bike. But I'll call it my '**** the strikers bike' for that week.
    "I spent most of my money on birds, booze and fast cars: the rest of it I just squandered." [George Best]
  • Stevo_666
    Stevo_666 Posts: 61,950
    edited November 2022

    They've annoyed me now. I'd arranged to visit someone on Saturday.


    I think that's the idea.

    Well, maybe not to annoy you personally, but to get noticed by the public generally, so there's public pressure to get driverless trains rolled out and sack the b***ards.
    FTFY.
    "I spent most of my money on birds, booze and fast cars: the rest of it I just squandered." [George Best]
  • Pross
    Pross Posts: 43,680
    edited November 2022
    pblakeney said:

    Looks like the MPs got the jist of my post. 🤣🤣🤣

    "MPs reject Christmas parties on expenses."

    They probably decided that they could just about stretch to a meal in the Members’ restaurant where a 3 course meal will set them back less than £15. Not sure what the bar prices are like.

    Edit - less than £4 a pint and less than £3 for a glass of wine or single malt by the look of it.
  • TheBigBean
    TheBigBean Posts: 22,079

    They've annoyed me now. I'd arranged to visit someone on Saturday.


    I think that's the idea.

    Well, maybe not to annoy you personally, but to get noticed by the public generally, so there's public pressure to get the dispute sorted.
    One of the solutions to the current problem is to encourage people to use trains. Obviously not the solution they are going for
  • briantrumpet
    briantrumpet Posts: 20,928
    Stevo_666 said:

    Stevo_666 said:

    I see the rail workers are intent on screwing up everyone's xmas paryt on that note.

    Blown up our team lunch which is the main event.

    four 48 hr strikes, 13-14th and 16th-17th December (so whole week more or less) and again 3-4th and 6-7th, of Jan so that weeek too.

    They really are a cunch of bunts. I shall beat them by cycling in.

    Don't forget to use the winter bike.
    It's also my spring, summer and autumn bike. But I'll call it my '**** the strikers bike' for that week.

    Have you thought about entering a raffle for a nice new bike?
  • Stevo_666
    Stevo_666 Posts: 61,950

    Stevo_666 said:

    Stevo_666 said:

    I see the rail workers are intent on screwing up everyone's xmas paryt on that note.

    Blown up our team lunch which is the main event.

    four 48 hr strikes, 13-14th and 16th-17th December (so whole week more or less) and again 3-4th and 6-7th, of Jan so that weeek too.

    They really are a cunch of bunts. I shall beat them by cycling in.

    Don't forget to use the winter bike.
    It's also my spring, summer and autumn bike. But I'll call it my '**** the strikers bike' for that week.

    Have you thought about entering a raffle for a nice new bike?
    Who's got that as a prize?
    "I spent most of my money on birds, booze and fast cars: the rest of it I just squandered." [George Best]
  • briantrumpet
    briantrumpet Posts: 20,928
    Stevo_666 said:

    Stevo_666 said:

    Stevo_666 said:

    I see the rail workers are intent on screwing up everyone's xmas paryt on that note.

    Blown up our team lunch which is the main event.

    four 48 hr strikes, 13-14th and 16th-17th December (so whole week more or less) and again 3-4th and 6-7th, of Jan so that weeek too.

    They really are a cunch of bunts. I shall beat them by cycling in.

    Don't forget to use the winter bike.
    It's also my spring, summer and autumn bike. But I'll call it my '**** the strikers bike' for that week.

    Have you thought about entering a raffle for a nice new bike?
    Who's got that as a prize?

    One of my best friends won a £2.5k bike on a raffle, sold it via eBay to a cash buyer from London who travelled down the next day to pick it up, and my friend bought a mega lens for his fancy camera and went on a safari holiday with his wife on the proceeds. I suppose you could say it was as good as a 'cash prize'.
  • webboo
    webboo Posts: 6,087
    Stevo_666 said:

    Stevo_666 said:

    Stevo_666 said:

    I see the rail workers are intent on screwing up everyone's xmas paryt on that note.

    Blown up our team lunch which is the main event.

    four 48 hr strikes, 13-14th and 16th-17th December (so whole week more or less) and again 3-4th and 6-7th, of Jan so that weeek too.

    They really are a cunch of bunts. I shall beat them by cycling in.

    Don't forget to use the winter bike.
    It's also my spring, summer and autumn bike. But I'll call it my '**** the strikers bike' for that week.

    Have you thought about entering a raffle for a nice new bike?
    Who's got that as a prize?
    ITV 4 usually during the Tour. I think they might have one per week up for grabs.