Seemingly trivial things that cheer you up

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  • pinno said:

    I know from personal experience that IHT is a complete and utter PITA.
    In the 7+ years it has taken the solicitors to sort my fathers estate (and it's not finished yet), we had to borrow a sizeable amount and eventually, sell a property to pay the IHT bill. In the time that took, the property (and some shareholdings) went up in value and so we paid Capital gains tax on top of the IHT, as well as the interest on the IHT loan took out to pay the IHT.
    The IHT bill had to be paid before the property was sold. Though we got some back under HMRC's tax relief system but not all.
    It's not all about the very rich - that's a misconception How many properties in the UK are worth more than the IHT threshold (£325k)?
    If the deceased had savings that are put aside for paying IHT, that's considered part of the assets and will be included in the estate value and subject to IHT - that's got to be wrong. That's where an individual should be able to put money aside which is categorically set aside for that purpose and that purpose alone but not included in that individuals estate value.

    HMRC's rules are pretty strict and many have to do what we had to do and take out loans to pay for IHT or pay by annual instalments. So someone dies and those in receipt of part or all pf an estate have a perennial financial hangover.

    The only way to avoid the IHT bill, is by giving all but everything away under the value of £325k 7 years before they die. IHT is something not to be laughed at as only a rich man's problem.
    IHT isn't simply a tax that is 'helping to pay for the fiscal deficit' and HMRC's actions are to be applauded. It's a tax that needs serious review and much more fairness.


    Nobody thinks that it is a rich persons tax as they have enough spare money that they can properly plan ie give the country estate to the eldest son and continue to live in the East Wing.

    IHT is a tax for the middle classes.
  • pblakeney
    pblakeney Posts: 27,330

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  • briantrumpet
    briantrumpet Posts: 20,374

    Do I have to post a dog again?


    Don't send it by Evri, if you do, as it'll end up at the wrong house.
  • rick_chasey
    rick_chasey Posts: 75,661
    Online food shopping.

    Once a week, the food turns up at the front door. Substitutions are almost always an improvement, it costs very very little and saves me 2 hours a week of my own free time.

    So good.
  • pangolin
    pangolin Posts: 6,648

    Online food shopping.

    Once a week, the food turns up at the front door. Substitutions are almost always an improvement, it costs very very little and saves me 2 hours a week of my own free time.

    So good.

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  • rick_chasey
    rick_chasey Posts: 75,661
    Sainos ;)
  • pangolin
    pangolin Posts: 6,648
    :D
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  • Stevo_666
    Stevo_666 Posts: 61,423

    Stevo_666 said:

    Stevo_666 said:

    Look, Stevo sees all tax as inherently evil (though he uses public services like roads etc) and he seems HMRC as the enemy, so he just backs anything that means there's less tax being paid, whether that's under-collection, avoidance or just lower taxes.

    It'd be easier if he just backed that position to the hilt rather than pretending he wants to be reasonable on this.

    You're assuming there Rick.

    It's part of my job to negotiate with HMRC and tax authorities around the region. Although not on IHT as I don't deal with personal stuff. For this particular tax there is a direct inverse correlation between how much the state takes and how much goes to my family. If you want screw your children's financial future, that's your call. Pretty stupid position take though IMO.
    Screw their future? Hopefully theyll be near retirement before I go.

    They can earn their own money. It’s good for you.

    No one likes a trust fund kid.
    Who knows, plenty of people die earlier than expected.

    I appreciated my inheritance and put it to good use. I intend to do the same for my kid. You do what you want.
    All the inheritance on both sides of my family ended up being eaten up by 10+ years of dementia care. Combined its roughly 50 years of fees.

    It’s not something anyone should ever rely on. They wasted far too much time on worrying about it.

    I'd rather they spent it all when they could still enjoy it.
    There is that, which is why I mentioned care feed above (for which there are similar mitigating actions). I saw my OH's inheritance flushed down the car fees toilet so I know what you're talking about.

    True, you need to live a bit while you can, but unless you can see into the future it makes sense to have something put aside. I want to be a burden on nobody for as long as possible.
    "I spent most of my money on birds, booze and fast cars: the rest of it I just squandered." [George Best]
  • Stevo_666
    Stevo_666 Posts: 61,423
    pinno said:

    I know from personal experience that IHT is a complete and utter PITA.
    In the 7+ years it has taken the solicitors to sort my fathers estate (and it's not finished yet), we had to borrow a sizeable amount and eventually, sell a property to pay the IHT bill. In the time that took, the property (and some shareholdings) went up in value and so we paid Capital gains tax on top of the IHT, as well as the interest on the IHT loan took out to pay the IHT.
    The IHT bill had to be paid before the property was sold. Though we got some back under HMRC's tax relief system but not all.
    It's not all about the very rich - that's a misconception How many properties in the UK are worth more than the IHT threshold (£325k)?
    If the deceased had savings that are put aside for paying IHT, that's considered part of the assets and will be included in the estate value and subject to IHT - that's got to be wrong. That's where an individual should be able to put money aside which is categorically set aside for that purpose and that purpose alone but not included in that individuals estate value.

    HMRC's rules are pretty strict and many have to do what we had to do and take out loans to pay for IHT or pay by annual instalments. So someone dies and those in receipt of part or all pf an estate have a perennial financial hangover.

    The only way to avoid the IHT bill, is by giving all but everything away under the value of £325k 7 years before they die. IHT is something not to be laughed at as only a rich man's problem.
    IHT isn't simply a tax that is 'helping to pay for the fiscal deficit' and HMRC's actions are to be applauded. It's a tax that needs serious review and much more fairness.


    Good point. Its a minefield but it can be avoided as you say. I only didn't have an issue with it because my folks lived in Redcar so what they left me was well within the threshold.
    "I spent most of my money on birds, booze and fast cars: the rest of it I just squandered." [George Best]
  • Stevo_666
    Stevo_666 Posts: 61,423
    edited January 2023
    rjsterry said:

    No Brian, it would not.

    Although I do think they should rebrand IHT as Death Tax. Maybe with a 💀 added beneath the HMRC logo. A little black humour would cheer me up.

    That reminds me that a tax partner at the firm where I trained kept a skull and crossbones flag on his desk :)
    "I spent most of my money on birds, booze and fast cars: the rest of it I just squandered." [George Best]
  • pblakeney
    pblakeney Posts: 27,330

    The above may be fact, or fiction, I may be serious, I may be jesting.
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  • rjsterry
    rjsterry Posts: 29,561
    pblakeney said:


    Why have you stuck him on a stick?
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  • pblakeney
    pblakeney Posts: 27,330
    rjsterry said:

    pblakeney said:


    Why have you stuck him on a stick?
    Creative license.
    The above may be fact, or fiction, I may be serious, I may be jesting.
    I am not sure. You have no chance.
    Veronese68 wrote:
    PB is the most sensible person on here.
  • JimD666
    JimD666 Posts: 2,293
    rjsterry said:

    pblakeney said:


    Why have you stuck him on a stick?
    Easier to roast?
  • veronese68
    veronese68 Posts: 27,821
    rjsterry said:

    pblakeney said:


    Why have you stuck him on a stick?
    How else could he balance him in mid air whilst he took the picture?
  • rjsterry
    rjsterry Posts: 29,561
    All good suggestions.
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    Pinnacle Monzonite

    Part of the anti-growth coalition
  • pinno
    pinno Posts: 52,327

    seanoconn - gruagach craic!
  • webboo
    webboo Posts: 6,087
    Just how cute is a kittens yawn. Probably worth losing a few million in inheritance tax to see one.
  • rick_chasey
    rick_chasey Posts: 75,661
    edited January 2023
    Podcast on the economist “how to argue better” and makes a good case for arguing and disagreeing with people “as a tool to sharpen your own reasoning” as it forces you to actually bring evidence and reason to the table rather than relying on instinct.

    Which is ultimately what I’ve used the forum for!

    (And dear reader, I’ll take some tips too…)
  • pangolin
    pangolin Posts: 6,648
    I feel like you've been offered a few tips :D
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    - Dolan Tuono
  • rick_chasey
    rick_chasey Posts: 75,661
    😬😬😬
  • Pross
    Pross Posts: 43,463

    Podcast on the economist “how to argue better” and makes a good case for arguing and disagreeing with people “as a tool to sharpen your own reasoning” as it forces you to actually bring evidence and reason to the table rather than relying on instinct.

    Which is ultimately what I’ve used the forum for!

    (And dear reader, I’ll take some tips too…)

    The evidence and reason bit would be a good starting point 😉
  • rick_chasey
    rick_chasey Posts: 75,661
    Ha. The whining about charts others produce that I use is genuinely limiting when it comes to a constructive argument.
  • briantrumpet
    briantrumpet Posts: 20,374

    Ha. The whining about charts others produce that I use is genuinely limiting when it comes to a constructive argument.


    Recognising the problems with charts quoted before others point out the problems might be a good ploy: it's a Feynman strategy... "These are all the problems with my hunch... but despite all these problems, these are all the reasons why I think that my hunch is correct."

    Sure, several of us, I suspect, quote bald charts to do a bit of (sometimes unsubtle) trolling, but one has to be ready for the pushback if the charts are flawed, by omission, or whatever.

  • pangolin
    pangolin Posts: 6,648

    Ha. The whining about charts others produce that I use is genuinely limiting when it comes to a constructive argument.


    Recognising the problems with charts quoted before others point out the problems might be a good ploy: it's a Feynman strategy... "These are all the problems with my hunch... but despite all these problems, these are all the reasons why I think that my hunch is correct."

    Sure, several of us, I suspect, quote bald charts to do a bit of (sometimes unsubtle) trolling, but one has to be ready for the pushback if the charts are flawed, by omission, or whatever.


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  • briantrumpet
    briantrumpet Posts: 20,374
    Sorry, could you find one that doesn't start on zero?

    Talking boldly about the bald facts of 'thinning hair', do barbers still use those instruments of torture that Mr Huddlestone (the barber/sweetshop owner) used to use on me, the thinning shears? God, I hated them. They didn't really cut, more 'ripped'.
  • webboo
    webboo Posts: 6,087
    edited January 2023
    No it’s all different types of electric/ battery clippers, cutthroat razors, lighted tapers, exfoliating lotions, hot towels and Turkish coffee.
  • webboo
    webboo Posts: 6,087
    And an eye watering bill at the end.