Hitting the big 30

MissBint37

As for dating mingers....I have dated a couple that were not tres hot and they are just as bad trust me!!! They don't make any more effort or value having a non-minging partner

My most recent ex was well fit though, probably the hottest one I've ever dated....and the best in the bouduoir.... gutted!

As far as getting used goes, I have had 4 people quite blatantly use me in the last 12 months, just makes me feel a bit worthlesssometimes, as much as like i said I do put out....I want someone to care about me as well as getting laid!

MissBint37

supersonic wrote:

Lol, it started off as was divorced. Then admitted they were seperated... pending the divorce coming through. Then admitted they had not even filed for it as was too expensive... (she was a Yank)

Didn't have much look the time before that either - moved in with her, 4 months later she admitted she had fallen for one of our biker mates then two weeks after that moved in with him.

Haha sounds like someone I'd end up getting involved iwithtoo knowing my track record!

Hope all is good now and it hasn't scarred you too much

whyamihere

Hmmm, 2 people of opposite sexes and similar ages, both from Sheffield, and both complaining about their problems with the opposite sex in the same thread...

2+2=?

supersonic

I'm fine and enjoying life once again! Been a while though - beginning to think women are made of pixels lol.

MissBint37

whyamihere wrote:

Hmmm, 2 people of opposite sexes and similar ages, both from Sheffield, and both complaining about their problems with the opposite sex in the same thread...

2+2=?

7? I never was any good at maths

Surf-Matt

supersonic wrote:

Can't say I have much luck either. Last G/F admitted she was still married then the husband threatened to kill me.

That's a bit of a bu66er!

Been married since I was 24 and met my wife when I was 20. Got a bit lucky I guess. Saves a lot of stress. Know a lot of single girls in their 30s - no idea why most of them are single - and none of them like it one bit.

supersonic

I'm evil, stay away lol. or should I say cursed ;-)

soy_sauce

MissBint37 wrote:

As for dating mingers....I have dated a couple that were not tres hot and they are just as bad trust me!!! They don't make any more effort or value having a non-minging partner

My most recent ex was well fit though, probably the hottest one I've ever dated....and the best in the bouduoir.... gutted!

As far as getting used goes, I have had 4 people quite blatantly use me in the last 12 months, just makes me feel a bit worthlesssometimes, as much as like i said I do put out....I want someone to care about me as well as getting laid!

that sound like me. lol

MissBint37

supersonic wrote:

I'm evil, stay away lol. or should I say cursed ;-)

that goes without saying, you're a man!

I actually have a date with a new guy in a couple of weeks time....starting to worry about it already!!! Bail bail bail

soy_sauce

whyamihere
i keep reading your username as "why ami here" instead of "why am i here"....

KnightofCydonia

MissBint37 wrote:

whyamihere wrote:

Hmmm, 2 people of opposite sexes and similar ages, both from Sheffield, and both complaining about their problems with the opposite sex in the same thread...

2+2=?

7? I never was any good at maths

If you'd teach me how to kite surf, play ice hockey and enjoyed parasailing, I'd buy one of you from whichever sheffield store has any stock

KnightofCydonia

Surf-Matt wrote:

Been married since I was 24 and met my wife when I was 20. Got a bit lucky I guess. Saves a lot of stress. Know a lot of single girls in their 30s - no idea why most of them are single - and none of them like it one bit.

Ahh, so if I wait until I'm in my 30s, i'll get the woman ?

whyamihere

henry_ho_yin wrote:

whyamihere
i keep reading your username as "why ami here" instead of "why am i here"....

If you have any lovely ladies named Ami, feel free to let me know.

JonasTheHobbit

KnightofCydonia wrote:

MissBint37 wrote:

whyamihere wrote:

Hmmm, 2 people of opposite sexes and similar ages, both from Sheffield, and both complaining about their problems with the opposite sex in the same thread...

2+2=?

7? I never was any good at maths

If you'd teach me how to kite surf, play ice hockey and enjoyed parasailing, I'd buy one of you from whichever sheffield store has any stock

a certain "someone" wants to play hide the sausage with another certain "someone"...

KnightofCydonia

JonasTheHobbit wrote:

KnightofCydonia wrote:

MissBint37 wrote:

whyamihere wrote:

Hmmm, 2 people of opposite sexes and similar ages, both from Sheffield, and both complaining about their problems with the opposite sex in the same thread...

2+2=?

7? I never was any good at maths

If you'd teach me how to kite surf, play ice hockey and enjoyed parasailing, I'd buy one of you from whichever sheffield store has any stock

a certain "someone" wants to play hide the sausage with another certain "someone"...

Have to be gluten & wheat free

Tino4444

MissBint37 wrote:

Ok so it's t minus like 2 days and I'm sh!tting it!

Will I wake up feeling old, will I survive.....I think I'm having a midlife crisis eep!

Nah my just sailed by, and in fact with all the cycling have been doing I feel fitter than when I was in my twenties!!

Just call it twentyten and then all is good!!

Tino.

Thewaylander

I go withthe the theory if there ugly enough they will be grateful.

Just depends if you go for teh A@~hole type or not

MissBint37

Thewaylander wrote:

I go withthe the theory if there ugly enough they will be grateful.

Just depends if you go for teh A@~hole type or not

Truly it's not the case. I said before I have been with a couple of not so handsome boys and they have all been just as bad! So yer I think I must just attract the a-hole type!

Thewaylander

Either that or just haven't gone ugly enough yet lass

MissBint37

Hmm well there is a limit!

I dont generally tend to go for the pretty boys anyway, my last ex was an exception, OMG he was gorgeous....and he ws lovely while we were together...but he had some kind of mental breakdown, I tried to be there for him but he didn't want it and dumped my ass. Shame it was hard to see him suffer. He has totally erased me from his life now, which I dont really understand becasue we never fell out or anything. Just hope he is OK and sorts himself out, not nice to be depressed!

Daz555

matthew h wrote:

For my 30th Birthday 5 couples went up to York & hired a house. Cars were MR2, 911, TVR & Lotus. Now six years later if we all went back it would be estates & MPV's

Yeah, funny how that happens. A group of my old Uni friends and partners get together every year in a rented cottage. There are 10 of us and we'd stay up getting mullered and behaving like idiots till it was daylight.

These days we are all parents of young kids and half of us are tucked up in bed by midnight knowing full well that little'uns will be up at the crack of sparrow and full of beans - no fun with a hangover, or still drunk, trust me. :shock:

And yes, the cars have all got bigger and slower.

Daz555

fred1star wrote:

Free view TV .... other name REPEAT TV....

Watched Dave+1 last night. Every bloody show a repeat. Bloody disgrace.

KnightofCydonia

happy vaginal explusion day maam

MissBint37

Well I am offficially old.....and feel no different, but the number is still terrifying me so much so I hid all my cards! How long before I wake up and not care I'm no longer in my 20s?

supersonic

I felt a lot older the day I woke up when 30... living stella death.

TheRevOlutionary

I still feel 26 so I dont care what number I get on my cards! Im actually 32, but it's more about how old you feel. Half of the people that complain about being 30 are fooling themselves that they feel older...IMHO

passout

At 30 I stopped thinking of myself as young. It sounds bit stupid but when I turned 30 I started to think about my age properly for the first time - things I wanted to do but hadn't, where I wanted my life to go etc etc. So over the next year I changed my career, bought a house, got married to my girlfriend and decided to start a family and get a dog. Settling down you might say. I have to say that turning 30 was a kick up the arse and I grew up as a result. I'm now closer to 40 than 30, have two kids a black lab and a bucksome wife and have never been happier. This worked for me because I'd done all my misbehaving between 15 and 30 and was getting bored of it! I realise that it doesn't work like that for many though.

Dazzza

I wouldn't worry about it, im 35 and still doing alright.

Also relationships are overrated just be grateful for the peace and quiet of being single.