Girls in... threads but a no swearing plicy, makes no sense.

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  • DonDaddyD
    DonDaddyD Posts: 12,689
    supersonic wrote:
    The issues raised in this thread have been forwarded to the Admin and Mods and are under discussion.

    Further issues have arisen though: if these forums are purely for the pursuit of cycling, should we ban all off topic areas and threads ie EVERY post must be cycling related?
    That's just silly. Clearly there is a market for off topic discussions. Those sections are also clearly not open to no-holds-barred discussions. You're telling me that between the moderators, web designers and content editors you can't decide on what is acceptable content of a quasi sexual nature and what isn't?
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  • DonDaddyD
    DonDaddyD Posts: 12,689
    Veronese68 wrote:
    DonDaddyD wrote:
    Furthermore not all women are forced into activities that revolve around or engage in sex (including selling it). Some choose and some enjoy watching and participating. In short you can go into a strip club, watch porn or a live show, enjoy yourself and not be degrading or derogatory to the female performer in front of you.
    How do you know if they are there as a lifestyle choice or because they have fallen on really bad times and felt they had no option? Do you do a background check and drug test them?
    It's not like a free range chicken that you can check your particular choice in smut has been ethically raised.
    You have a point. You can to some degree.

    But what I'm trying to say (which may have been poorly put) is that liking these things isn't immediately bad, evil and 'the devil'. The attitudes that spawn out of some who engage in these activities is the problem. Some often forget that the obect of their desires is actually a person.
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  • 15peter20
    15peter20 Posts: 293
    DonDaddyD wrote:
    supersonic wrote:
    The issues raised in this thread have been forwarded to the Admin and Mods and are under discussion.

    Further issues have arisen though: if these forums are purely for the pursuit of cycling, should we ban all off topic areas and threads ie EVERY post must be cycling related?
    That's just silly. Clearly there is a market for off topic discussions. Those sections are also clearly not open to no-holds-barred discussions. You're telling me that between the moderators, web designers and content editors you can't decide on what is acceptable content of a quasi sexual nature and what isn't?
    Quite. If this is coming from a mod, that's really quite a worrying mindset. So is has to be Anything goes v Cycling only
  • notsoblue
    notsoblue Posts: 5,756
    15peter20 wrote:
    Quite. If this is coming from a mod, that's really quite a worrying mindset. So is has to be Anything goes v Cycling only
    I can't read anything you say without hearing your speech about crying through your genitals, and Jamie Oliver jumping through the air.
  • CiB
    CiB Posts: 6,098
    Don't say you weren't warned....
    Careful what you wish for DDDDD; you're asking for consistency on censorship and there's only way that can go.

    Either we're happy to have a bit of naughty corner with a tacit acceptance that it's the equivalent of where the 6th form go for a fag & share of a jazz mag, or we have a block on what looks to me like some v mild titillation. I haven't trawled the whole collection of Girls In threads as it all gets a bit samey after the first half dozen, but there does seem [to me at least] an element in this discussion of which blokes can prove their support for the ladeez the most.

    Me? I know it's there, these threads, I'm not that bothered by them. Complaining about things you don't much fancy for on the internet seems to me to be a pretty fruitless occupation.
  • DonDaddyD
    DonDaddyD Posts: 12,689
    edited March 2012
    Sigh - OK here goes.

    (From Girls in Lycra) I don't mind this:
    DonDaddyD wrote:
    The standard in this thread has dropped. Pick it up boys.

    It's been posted but as a bench mark, here she is again:
    http://dhreno.files.wordpress.com/2008/11/lizhatch.jpg

    this
    DonDaddyD wrote:
    Aggieboy wrote:

    WOW! I mean really, WOW!

    When you see people look like that (and you know you can't have them) you know life isn't fair.... because it just isn't.

    WOW!

    or this
    DonDaddyD wrote:

    I believe the above to be at least decent and good natured if a little sexually charged.

    (From Girls in realistic situations) I don't think this is necessary or productive

    or even this
    Aggieboy wrote:

    Now tell me there is no difference.
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  • Stevo_666
    Stevo_666 Posts: 61,968
    edited March 2012
    CiB wrote:
    Don't say you weren't warned....
    Careful what you wish for DDDDD; you're asking for consistency on censorship and there's only way that can go.

    Either we're happy to have a bit of naughty corner with a tacit acceptance that it's the equivalent of where the 6th form go for a fag & share of a jazz mag, or we have a block on what looks to me like some v mild titillation. I haven't trawled the whole collection of Girls In threads as it all gets a bit samey after the first half dozen, but there does seem [to me at least] an element in this discussion of which blokes can prove their support for the ladeez the most.
    Well put.

    On a related note, looks like DDD might not win any popularity contests over in Cake Stop ;-) (edited for inability to write a full sentence before second cup of cofee...)
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  • DonDaddyD
    DonDaddyD Posts: 12,689
    I actually think it is pathetic that Eke and Jonny_Trousers encouraged other users to flame me.
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  • MattC59
    MattC59 Posts: 5,408
    I think that DDD's comment with pics is fair, but the comment a few pages back about it being a public place and the analogy with Starbucks is horse sh*t. The threads are clearly labled and it would appear that everyone who doesn't like them knows what's in them. If you don't like them, don't look.

    It's not a case of passing smutty pictures around Starbucks, more a case of leaving a clearly labled book on the table and letting people decide whether to read it or not.

    Anyway, if you're offended by Cakestop (which is an OT forum, ie not dedicated to cycling), for christ's sake, don't look at Crudcatcher !!!
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  • notsoblue
    notsoblue Posts: 5,756
    edited March 2012
    CiB wrote:
    Me? I know it's there, these threads, I'm not that bothered by them. Complaining about things you don't much fancy for on the internet seems to me to be a pretty fruitless occupation.
    I'm inclined to agree.

    I also agree with Johnny_Trousers here, DDD's serialisation of his GCSE essay on women's lib is hilarious ;)He scrapes a pass, but only because he sucks up to teach.

    Velo, I think you'll be hard pressed to find anyone on this thread defending the kind of degrading posts that are on the Girl's in thread. But I think the attitudes you've expressed on this thread are drifting scarily close to the "all men are potential rapists" opinion.

    Ultimately it all boils down to discretion and respect, and I think all of us here have similar opinions on where lines are to be drawn here and we agree that these were crossed on some posts in Cake Stop. I'm not sure what other disagreement there is here? I don't work directly with vulnerable women in the way you do, but I work for an organisation that does and I understand where you're coming from. But you can't relate the misogyny and violence you've observed professionally to posts on this forum without raising a few hackles...
  • sketchley
    sketchley Posts: 4,238
    @DDD in general I agree, trouble is though for each person the line on what is and is not acceptable or offensive is in a different place. My understanding is the line here is drawn at no nudity, at least if the posting rules on crud catcher are anything to go by. That being said there is a naked par of breast in girls in rainwear..... Could I suggest you write your take on an acceptable use policy and we can then debate that?
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  • notsoblue
    notsoblue Posts: 5,756
    DonDaddyD wrote:
    Sigh - OK here goes.
    You really didn't need to post these clearly NSFW pictures to prove your point.
  • DonDaddyD
    DonDaddyD Posts: 12,689
    notsoblue wrote:
    DonDaddyD wrote:
    Sigh - OK here goes.
    You really didn't need to post these clearly NSFW pictures to prove your point.
    Thanks for being so patronising. Still, it's ironic that considering my hilarious 'GCSE essay'.
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  • supersonic wrote:
    The issues raised in this thread have been forwarded to the Admin and Mods and are under discussion.

    Further issues have arisen though: if these forums are purely for the pursuit of cycling, should we ban all off topic areas and threads ie EVERY post must be cycling related?

    That is daft.

    First, no one has said
    if these forums are purely for the pursuit of cycling

    They're not, nor do they have to be. If you want to see an example of a forum that is, and strict moderation to enforce that rule, have a look at weight weenies. There is a wealth of useful information there about relatively narrow subject matter. To that extent it is a useful site. But the speed at which off topic (and you don't have to stray far to go off topic) threads get locked and deleted is ludicrous.

    Secondly, no one is suggesting you ban all off topic areas and threads. That's obvious. It *should* be pretty easy to work out work is clearly over the line.

    Third, one gets a strong feeling that the admin and mods are pretty sympathetic to the girls picture threads. Or perhaps are keen to retain the user base that comes with them - I don't know which.
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  • Paul E
    Paul E Posts: 2,052
    Yes thanks for posting those and not putting a warning, yes I am being patronising.
  • 15peter20
    15peter20 Posts: 293
    edited March 2012
    MattC59 wrote:
    I think that DDD's comment with pics is fair, but the comment a few pages back about it being a public place and the analogy with Starbucks is horse sh*t. The threads are clearly labled and it would appear that everyone who doesn't like them knows what's in them. If you don't like them, don't look.

    It's not a case of passing smutty pictures around Starbucks, more a case of leaving a clearly labled book on the table and letting people decide whether to read it or not.

    Anyway, if you're offended by Cakestop (which is an OT forum, ie not dedicated to cycling), for christ's sake, don't look at Crudcatcher !!!
    So you're agreeing that it's a bit like walking into Starbucks and finding jazz mags littered around the place - or maybe porn on the lower shelves of WHSMiths? Nice!
  • notsoblue
    notsoblue Posts: 5,756
    DonDaddyD wrote:
    notsoblue wrote:
    DonDaddyD wrote:
    Sigh - OK here goes.
    You really didn't need to post these clearly NSFW pictures to prove your point.
    Thanks for being so patronising. Still, it's ironic that considering my hilarious 'GCSE essay'.
    Nah, not patronising, or ironic, I just try and avoid browsing threads that feature pictures of women sitting on toilets and having sex when I'm at work.
  • notsoblue wrote:
    without raising a few heckles...

    Pedal stool moment
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  • notsoblue
    notsoblue Posts: 5,756
    Greg66 wrote:
    notsoblue wrote:
    without raising a few heckles...

    Pedal stool moment
    Ahem...apologies.
  • notsoblue wrote:
    Greg66 wrote:
    notsoblue wrote:
    without raising a few heckles...

    Pedal stool moment
    Ahem...apologies.

    S'okay. Someone will be along soon with a damp squid moment no doubt...
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  • t.m.h.n.e.t
    t.m.h.n.e.t Posts: 2,265
    How did everyone manage to miss the most vital point in all of this? You compared half a titty and some lycra to foul language and that itself doesn't make sense.

    All of the "female appreciation" (:O) threads are titled as such, "Girls in _______" there is no question that when you click the link,that you are probably going to see something related to the title. It then boils down rather simply. If you don't like the thread title,chances are you won't like what's in it. There is nobody to blame but yourself. Maybe such threads would do better with *NSFW" warnings in the titles and maybe if bodyparts and barely there clothing offends you,stay away from magazines,tv,outside,a mirror or indeed the cheese counter at Sainsburys.

    Whereas, a casual f*ck or other swearword/derogatory/racial term in the middle of "Oh isn't the sun lovely today" type thread, there isn't such a warning,you don't know it's there until you've read it.

    Don't try to readdress balance when you aren't actually balancing the options out nor offering solutions. Do you want to remove any talk that isn't about bikes in some fashion? Many forums inc this one do rely heavily on allowance of off-topic stuff to bring readers/users back. You would find that if every post made here in one day had to be cycling relative,it wouldn't take long before the forum was dead.


    Tackle the swearing(which honestly would require more mods) not something entirely different to make yourself feel better about it.
  • Cleat Eastwood
    Cleat Eastwood Posts: 7,508
    hehe my plans working - I paid DDD in 'imported' Thai DVD's - to direct people from the Girls in.... to my munters thread. well ddd, it's all going smoothly... :D
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  • notsoblue
    notsoblue Posts: 5,756
    DonDaddyD wrote:
    notsoblue wrote:
    DonDaddyD wrote:
    Sigh - OK here goes.
    You really didn't need to post these clearly NSFW pictures to prove your point.
    Thanks for being so patronising. Still, it's ironic that considering my hilarious 'GCSE essay'.
    Thanks for editing your post btw.
  • Aggieboy
    Aggieboy Posts: 3,996
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  • DonDaddyD
    DonDaddyD Posts: 12,689
    How did everyone manage to miss the most vital point in all of this? You compared half a titty and some lycra to foul language and that itself doesn't make sense.

    Does it not? Why is it sexual content, foul language and violence are grouped together in film and audio certification?

    If one form of adult content is allowed then why not others? Whose ever hear of a porn with no swearing? :roll:
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  • notsoblue
    notsoblue Posts: 5,756
    DonDaddyD wrote:
    How did everyone manage to miss the most vital point in all of this? You compared half a titty and some lycra to foul language and that itself doesn't make sense.

    Does it not? Why is it sexual content, foul language and violence are grouped together in film and audio certification?

    If one form of adult content is allowed then why not others? Whose ever hear of a porn with no swearing? :roll:
    All the porn you watch features swearing?
  • clarkey cat
    clarkey cat Posts: 3,641
    'ooh baby, fung me hard you muddyfumpster'
  • t.m.h.n.e.t
    t.m.h.n.e.t Posts: 2,265
    DonDaddyD wrote:
    How did everyone manage to miss the most vital point in all of this? You compared half a titty and some lycra to foul language and that itself doesn't make sense.

    Does it not? Why is it sexual content, foul language and violence are grouped together in film and audio certification?

    If one form of adult content is allowed then why not others? Whose ever hear of a porn with no swearing? :roll:

    This is a forum,not film and audio certification.

    Swearing is adult content? How out of touch with todays yoof ar you?
  • DonDaddyD
    DonDaddyD Posts: 12,689
    notsoblue wrote:
    DonDaddyD wrote:
    How did everyone manage to miss the most vital point in all of this? You compared half a titty and some lycra to foul language and that itself doesn't make sense.

    Does it not? Why is it sexual content, foul language and violence are grouped together in film and audio certification?

    If one form of adult content is allowed then why not others? Whose ever hear of a porn with no swearing? :roll:
    All the porn you watch features swearing?
    Did watch.

    Have you ever seen a porn where the woman says "make sweet passionate love to me?" or is she more likely to include the word f*ck?
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    A true scalp is not only overtaking someone but leaving them stopped at a set of lights. As you, who have clearly beaten the lights, pummels nothing but the open air ahead. ~ 'DondaddyD'. Player of the Unspoken Game
  • clarkey cat
    clarkey cat Posts: 3,641
    check out - x-art

    no swearing
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