Men 'worried' about heavy internet pron use
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DonDaddyD wrote:EKE_38BPM wrote:DonDaddyD wrote:But sex without porn is boring. It's like doing it with your clothes on (when indoors and in the bed... pencil skirt not withstanding).
I pity Mrs DDD if you need porn, pencil skirts and who-knows what other props to get busy.
I'm only speaking for myself here, but I think its fair to say that if sex without porn is boring you are a porn addict and/or you just ain't doing it right.
My post was mainly tongue in cheek but it touches on a point I've taken up with the odd friend when they've moaned about a lack of creativity in the bedroom.
I don't need porn, but I think most would be lying if they said it didn't add or contribute, in some way, to spicing things up a little. Fact is sex isn't taboo and exploring it, in whatever way you are comfortable with, to learn and add to your experience, skills, sense of sexual discovery/creativity is no bad thing.
It's the whole if you're not exposed to (insert stimulae) it then how do you learn. Someone would have had to have seen doggy to (i) call it that and (ii) try it out.
That said you are right, if the only way you can be intimate is ala a porn-esque setting then there may be a problem.
But where do you draw the line between addicted problem and something you like. When doing so isn't harmful or detrimental to you, your partner or the relationship?
I could go on.
Seriously? I think you'd stumble across it somehow. Who cares what you and the other person/people involved call it? I'm pretty sure 'doggy' and everything else predates printed media, let alone the internet by a few millennia.1985 Mercian King of Mercia - work in progress (Hah! Who am I kidding?)
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Kieran_Burns wrote:Greg66 wrote:Rick Chasey wrote:It also explains the rise in the whole pubic grooming phenomenon.
Hmm.
When I groom our cat, I leave the hair on it. I just get the knots out.
Am I doing it wrong?
depends - are you pretending to be a young tomcat while you're doing it?
Our cat's a young knackerless male. So I hope not.0 -
rjsterry wrote:Seriously? I think you'd stumble across it somehow. Who cares what you and the other person/people involved call it? I'm pretty sure 'doggy' and everything else predates printed media, let alone the internet by a few millennia.
I'm pretty sure doggy is the grandpappa of all the positions.0 -
Every bloke's all chat when it comes to sex.
Let's hear their performance from their ex's please....0 -
Greg66 wrote:rjsterry wrote:Seriously? I think you'd stumble across it somehow. Who cares what you and the other person/people involved call it? I'm pretty sure 'doggy' and everything else predates printed media, let alone the internet by a few millennia.
I'm pretty sure doggy is the grandpappa of all the positions.
Point of the matter is that porn could be one of those circumstances of how you 'stumble' across it.
With the acessibility of the Internet and ease at which porn can be accessed and viewed it's probably one the most common ways people stumble across.... oh I don't know felching..
It did kill the cement and ultimately kill the video after all...Food Chain number = 4
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Rick Chasey wrote:Every bloke's all chat when it comes to sex.
Let's hear their performance from their ex's please....
You want references?!
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EKE_38BPM wrote:Rick Chasey wrote:Every bloke's all chat when it comes to sex.
Let's hear their performance from their ex's please....
You want references?!
How many?!!
I figured if you weren't very good you'd have to keep sleeping with someone else since no-one came back for 2nds.0 -
DonDaddyD wrote:Greg66 wrote:rjsterry wrote:Seriously? I think you'd stumble across it somehow. Who cares what you and the other person/people involved call it? I'm pretty sure 'doggy' and everything else predates printed media, let alone the internet by a few millennia.
I'm pretty sure doggy is the grandpappa of all the positions.
Point of the matter is that porn could be one of those circumstances of how you 'stumble' across it.
With the acessibility of the Internet and ease at which porn can be accessed and viewed it's probably one the most common ways people stumble across.... oh I don't know felching..
It did kill the cement and ultimately kill the video after all...
And that's the nub of the argument that it's becoming a problem. With a little imagination you'd work it out without any external prompting, and you'd get a more balanced idea of what you (and whoever else) actually like rather than what you've been told you should like.1985 Mercian King of Mercia - work in progress (Hah! Who am I kidding?)
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rjsterry wrote:DonDaddyD wrote:Greg66 wrote:rjsterry wrote:Seriously? I think you'd stumble across it somehow. Who cares what you and the other person/people involved call it? I'm pretty sure 'doggy' and everything else predates printed media, let alone the internet by a few millennia.
I'm pretty sure doggy is the grandpappa of all the positions.
Point of the matter is that porn could be one of those circumstances of how you 'stumble' across it.
With the acessibility of the Internet and ease at which porn can be accessed and viewed it's probably one the most common ways people stumble across.... oh I don't know felching..
It did kill the cement and ultimately kill the video after all...
And that's the nub of the argument that it's becoming a problem. With a little imagination you'd work it out without any external prompting, and you'd get a more balanced idea of what you (and whoever else) actually like rather than what you've been told you should like.
Most of the fun in sex is that awkward moment when you're totally naked and exposed, wondering weather to try out that thing you fancy > leaving yourself wide open to being hurt in humiliating circumstances < that's genuine intimacy and that's proper sex. It's awkward, emotionally charged, difficult, and rarely goes as right as you want it to in your head.0 -
rjsterry wrote:DonDaddyD wrote:Greg66 wrote:rjsterry wrote:Seriously? I think you'd stumble across it somehow. Who cares what you and the other person/people involved call it? I'm pretty sure 'doggy' and everything else predates printed media, let alone the internet by a few millennia.
I'm pretty sure doggy is the grandpappa of all the positions.
Point of the matter is that porn could be one of those circumstances of how you 'stumble' across it.
With the acessibility of the Internet and ease at which porn can be accessed and viewed it's probably one the most common ways people stumble across.... oh I don't know felching..
It did kill the cement and ultimately kill the video after all...
And that's the nub of the argument that it's becoming a problem. With a little imagination you'd work it out without any external prompting,
I disagree, the Kharma Sutra is like the oldest recorded document on such things and that is very much visual text. Also we have those two little things called nature and curiousity. It's in our nature to be curious to watch and learn. Sex isn't an exception. It became a taboo.
I know what I like because I've given a few things a try (with in the boundaries of how far my sexuality will go) and know whats for me. That doesn't mean i won't try new things when I see/learn/think about them.Food Chain number = 4
A true scalp is not only overtaking someone but leaving them stopped at a set of lights. As you, who have clearly beaten the lights, pummels nothing but the open air ahead. ~ 'DondaddyD'. Player of the Unspoken Game0 -
Rick Chasey wrote:
Most of the fun in sex is that awkward moment when you're totally naked and exposed, wondering weather to try out that thing you fancy > leaving yourself wide open to being hurt in humiliating circumstances < that's genuine intimacy and that's proper sex. It's awkward, emotionally charged, difficult, and rarely goes as right as you want it to in your head.
I think sexual enjoyment is subjective to the individual. What one girl likes another may not. :x And I'm like Jeet Kun Do in my approach...
"Not being tense but ready.
Not thinking but not dreaming.
Not being set but flexible.
Liberation from the uneasy sense of confinement.
It is being wholly and quietly alive, aware and alert, ready for whatever may come."
— Bruce Lee (Tao of Jeet Kune Do)Food Chain number = 4
A true scalp is not only overtaking someone but leaving them stopped at a set of lights. As you, who have clearly beaten the lights, pummels nothing but the open air ahead. ~ 'DondaddyD'. Player of the Unspoken Game0 -
DonDaddyD wrote:I actually just outgrew it pr0n on the Internet. I also think I saw everything I wanted to see on the free sites and they didn't update quickly enough. Also with the advent of HD a lot of the older stuff just looks blurry....
Bangbus moved to HD and updates every Wednesday but I don't like the new website format.... lol.
Getting it on your iPhone is the next big thing.
"Lemme use your phone mate"
"Sur..... hang on a second, let me just close these webpages...."
Several times in the course of my job i've been paid to surf porn, it's was "hard" work
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Kieran_Burns wrote:Greg66 wrote:Rick Chasey wrote:It also explains the rise in the whole pubic grooming phenomenon.
Hmm.
When I groom our cat, I leave the hair on it. I just get the knots out.
Am I doing it wrong?
depends - are you pretending to be a young tomcat while you're doing it?
No but he was wearing it at the time :roll:Rule #5 // Harden The Feck Up.
Rule #9 // If you are out riding in bad weather, it means you are a badass. Period.
Rule #12 // The correct number of bikes to own is n+1.
Rule #42 // A bike race shall never be preceded with a swim and/or followed by a run.0 -
Jay dubbleU wrote:WTF is pron ? Am I missing out ?
It's pr0n for people who don't speak l33t0x.0
