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Simonb256
Simonb256 Posts: 880
edited June 2007 in The Crudcatcher
A minion at work has a new mrs which he is trying to keep very secrative(sp). It turns out to be one of the customers and it is effecting his work.

This has came up before but the director has said if he does anything like that then he is fired on the spot.

He is leaving in just under a month. Do I let him be or do I fire him? he is kind of a mate which complicates things a little more.



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  • skamanfrank
    skamanfrank Posts: 615
    Make him grovel. Like a bit<s></s>ch, make him your gimp for a month and then when he leaves tell him you were never going to fire him any way

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  • If he's leaving, leave him be. Firing him will make it harder for him to get a job in the future and as a friend aswell.

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  • fleabag
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    Leave him be.

    If its not even a month till he goes anyway....

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  • Sav
    Sav Posts: 17
    I'm glad you're not my mate, tight arse!

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  • Yeah leave him, unless your evil of coarse.

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  • skamanfrank
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    You guys suck. Do what I said, it's much more fun

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  • Simonb256
    Simonb256 Posts: 880
    Its not as simple as that though, yes its easy to say let him be, but he has been consistantly warned about it by myself and the directors.

    I suppose it comes down to wether i value my work or his friendship? if thats what your making it out to be? and to be honest its really not that easy at all.

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  • Isn't it? The guy obviously really likes this girl so who are you to stand in his way?

    Can't you just turn a blind eye and pretend you know nothing about it?

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  • Rscott
    Rscott Posts: 123
    just ignore it he probably wont do much work anyway with him leaving in a month. he just wont give a corr blimey.

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  • Simonb256
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    So basically turn a blind eye and when he gets found out via directors neither of us have a job? he will get found out as the woman he is messing about with is a good friend of one of the director's wives.



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  • Are they really going to fire you? How is it your fault? Sure your not making mountains out of molehills?

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  • Rscott
    Rscott Posts: 123
    how about you start by having a quite word with him abotu it and see how he reacts. if he dosn't respect that then move on to futher action.

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  • Simonb256
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    <blockquote id="quote"><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica" id="quote">quote:<hr height="1" noshade id="quote"><i>Originally posted by Fantastic Mr Fox</i>

    Are they really going to fire you? How is it your fault? Sure your not making mountains out of molehills?

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    It is my fault though firslty for not telling the directors and secondly I am directly responsible for him as I am him manager. I would be classed as endangering a relationship with a customer and not performing my job properly.

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  • skamanfrank
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    Why not just discuss it with the directors and explain why you are hesitant about firing him? It will probably look better on them for not firing someone who's only got a month left?

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  • Simonb256
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    <blockquote id="quote"><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica" id="quote">quote:<hr height="1" noshade id="quote"><i>Originally posted by skamanfrank</i>

    Why not just discuss it with the directors and explain why you are hesitant about firing him? It will probably look better on them for not firing someone who's only got a month left?

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    I have spoken to them last time this came up and this is why I pretty much know how they would react. They basically say if I dont they will.

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  • <blockquote id="quote"><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica" id="quote">quote:<hr height="1" noshade id="quote"><i>Originally posted by Simonb256</i>

    <blockquote id="quote"><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica" id="quote">quote:<hr height="1" noshade id="quote"><i>Originally posted by Fantastic Mr Fox</i>

    Are they really going to fire you? How is it your fault? Sure your not making mountains out of molehills?

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    It is my fault though firslty for not telling the directors and secondly I am directly responsible for him as I am him manager. I would be classed as endangering a relationship with a customer and not performing my job properly.
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    Yes but, if you <b>don't</b> know about it, then how is this your fault?

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  • JinjaNinja
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    1, How much does it effect company work?

    2, If he's fired, he won't be getting any other jobs.

    3, From directors eyes, How would you have known about this?

    4, If he's leaving in just under a month, why don't you suggest that he keeps it at a bare minimum untill he leaves at its all gravey. If theres negative reaction from that, start hinting you don't want to lose your job.

    Man I hope the directors arn't closet MTB'ers and on the forum!

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  • Crazy Dave C
    Crazy Dave C Posts: 7,615
    Can I ask why he will be fired? Or why you will be?
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  • Simonb256
    Simonb256 Posts: 880
    <blockquote id="quote"><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica" id="quote">quote:<hr height="1" noshade id="quote"><i>Originally posted by Fantastic Mr Fox</i>


    Yes but, if you <b>don't</b> know about it, then how is this your fault?

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    I do know though. Thats the point. I'm not going to lie, I refuse to lie. Not just for him but in general.

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  • JinjaNinja
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    <blockquote id="quote"><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica" id="quote">quote:<hr height="1" noshade id="quote"><i>Originally posted by Crazy Dave C</i>

    Can I ask why he will be fired? Or why you will be?
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    You'r generally not allowed relationships with clients in a lot of high profile buissnes. Especially if it can effect the company/client relationship.

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  • JinjaNinja
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    <blockquote id="quote"><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica" id="quote">quote:<hr height="1" noshade id="quote"><i>Originally posted by Simonb256</i>

    <blockquote id="quote"><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica" id="quote">quote:<hr height="1" noshade id="quote"><i>Originally posted by Fantastic Mr Fox</i>


    Yes but, if you <b>don't</b> know about it, then how is this your fault?

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    Theres a diffrence between telling a lie and not telling anything.

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  • Crazy Dave C
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    That's their policy but what would the reason be for firing Simon?
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  • Crazy Dave C
    Crazy Dave C Posts: 7,615
    Your boss is a cu<s></s>nt. Get him on here and we'll set him straight.
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  • Simonb256
    Simonb256 Posts: 880
    <blockquote id="quote"><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica" id="quote">quote:<hr height="1" noshade id="quote"><i>Originally posted by JinjaNinja</i>

    1, How much does it effect company work?
    <b>At the moment greatly as he is the only person they will tlak to and he is unable to do anything for the, so he just spends an hour talking about crap to them</b>
    2, If he's fired, he won't be getting any other jobs.
    <b>Hes a uni placement student so he will jsut have to do an extra module</b>
    3, From directors eyes, How would you have known about this?
    <b>The directors are aware that I have a friendship (if you can call it that with him and they know about when he pulled (i was there)</b>
    4, If he's leaving in just under a month, why don't you suggest that he keeps it at a bare minimum untill he leaves at its all gravey. If theres negative reaction from that, start hinting you don't want to lose your job.
    <b>Again already have done and he basically said old mans stamp collection off and that they cant fire me apparently</b>
    Man I hope the directors arn't closet MTB'ers and on the forum!
    <b>They know I go on here and check it occassionally, yeah </b>
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  • JinjaNinja
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    If it was found that simon knew about this, as the chap in question has had a history of this and simon is his direct manager. Directors would blame simon for not noticing it/acting on it.

    May not be fire, but enough to put your job/carrer on thin ice.

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  • Simonb256
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    I more or lees already am on thin'ish ice.

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  • JinjaNinja
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    Ok, my advise is if he dosn't give a fook about your carrer, why should you. At least you'd be doing it for a good reason rather then just some pu<u></u><i></i>ssy.

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  • Anonymous
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    Fire him.
    Why endanger your career over his?
    He obviously knew the rules and chose to ignore them.
    Or offer him an ultimatium, stop seeing her till he leaves, then he can do what he likes. Or be fired.


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  • me_groovy
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    can't his leaving just be brought forward a month? volentary redundancy kinda thing? you don't have to let his uni know about it

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