FAO anyone whos had a long term relationship

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edited June 2007 in The Crudcatcher
Thats been for over a year, do you "go and catch up" with your ex on a regular sort of basis after you've left them?

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<blockquote id="quote"><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica" id="quote">quote:<hr height="1" noshade id="quote"><i>Originally posted by homers double</i>

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  • elmotheewokking
    elmotheewokking Posts: 2,279
    I did for the 9 months we were apart saw her maybe twice a month.
    Back with her now actually. Happy days.

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    at least it hasn't rashed like my groin.
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  • Clous87
    Clous87 Posts: 299
    me and my current girlfriend have been with each other about 10months and i see my ex every couple of months

    why?

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  • No reason really just intrested to know.

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    <blockquote id="quote"><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica" id="quote">quote:<hr height="1" noshade id="quote"><i>Originally posted by homers double</i>

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  • JinjaNinja
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    One GF I went out with gor a few years (2/3 IIRC.. length of relationship not age) And never saw her again. (although saw her mum a few weeks ago [:0]) Second one (3 years) I saw on a twice weekly basis as we have child.

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  • Nope, never seen any of my ex's, most of them live in different towns/countries.

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  • <blockquote id="quote"><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica" id="quote">quote:<hr height="1" noshade id="quote"><i>Originally posted by JinjaNinja</i>

    One GF I went out with gor a few years (2/3 IIRC.. length of relationship not age) And never saw her again. (although saw her mum a few weeks ago [:0]) Second one (3 years) I saw on a twice weekly basis as we have child.

    <hr noshade size="1"><font size="1"><font color="green"><center><i>Originally posted by John</i>

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    <hr height="1" noshade id="quote"></blockquote id="quote"></font id="quote">Thats normal though if you have a child. I dont understand this particular relationship was rocky and was always on/off only ended a month or so ago :|

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    <blockquote id="quote"><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica" id="quote">quote:<hr height="1" noshade id="quote"><i>Originally posted by homers double</i>

    But he's French.<hr height="1" noshade id="quote"></blockquote id="quote"></font id="quote">
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    <blockquote id="quote"><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica" id="quote">quote:<hr height="1" noshade id="quote"><i>Originally posted by homers double</i>

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  • Kitty
    Kitty Posts: 2,844
    None of my relationships, minus my current one, have been long term really but all the lads I've had "things" with i still talk to all of them apart from one really, I'm still really good mates with one or two.

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  • November
    November Posts: 130
    Same here. My relationship with Mat's the only long term one I've had, but then again it's been on for three years so I wasn't exactly old enough to have gone through a lot of long terms. Still speak to some of my 'exes', but as they didn't mean alot to me it doesn't feel very odd. I can imagine it feeling strange when you've actually been in love with someone!

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  • JinjaNinja
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    <blockquote id="quote"><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica" id="quote">quote:<hr height="1" noshade id="quote"><i>Originally posted by Fulltime Slacker</i>

    <blockquote id="quote"><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica" id="quote">quote:<hr height="1" noshade id="quote"><i>Originally posted by JinjaNinja</i>

    One GF I went out with gor a few years (2/3 IIRC.. length of relationship not age) And never saw her again. (although saw her mum a few weeks ago [:0]) Second one (3 years) I saw on a twice weekly basis as we have child.

    <hr noshade size="1"><font size="1"><font color="green"><center><i>Originally posted by John</i>

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    <hr height="1" noshade id="quote"></blockquote id="quote"></font id="quote">Thats normal though if you have a child. I dont understand this particular relationship was rocky and was always on/off only ended a month or so ago :|

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    <blockquote id="quote"><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica" id="quote">quote:<hr height="1" noshade id="quote"><i>Originally posted by homers double</i>

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    If it was "on/off" thats probably why it feels strange meeting up again, you just don't know where you stand with each other!

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    <hr noshade size="1"><font size="1"><font color="green"><center><i>Originally posted by John</i>

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  • me_groovy
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    mine was 3 years and she was a cheating whore, so no I don't speak to her anymore

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  • elmotheewokking
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    Theres only one I don't speak to, evil witch.

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    at least it hasn't rashed like my groin.
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  • Moriarti
    Moriarti Posts: 610
    i used to meet up with my ex. if by 'catch up' you mean 'meet up for sex' then yes we did it often [:D]

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  • abul
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    i was with my ex for the best part of a year. i loved her and i thought she felt the same way. turns out she was using me therefore i dont see her. and i dont want to

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  • yes, i do. 4 year relationship, and we regularly meet up. as friends

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    <blockquote id="quote"><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica" id="quote">quote:<hr height="1" noshade id="quote"><i>Originally posted by Cerberus</i>

    I blocked my toilet up the other day.

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    <blockquote id="quote"><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica" id="quote">quote:<hr height="1" noshade id="quote"><i>Originally posted by Cerberus</i>

    I blocked my toilet up the other day.

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  • Tom
    Tom Posts: 5,945
    never really had a long term relationship. but i see most of the girls iv had a thing with kicking round town, we all go to the same places.

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  • <blockquote id="quote"><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica" id="quote">quote:<hr height="1" noshade id="quote"><i>Originally posted by i_used_2b_fukpigonabike</i>

    yes, i do. 4 year relationship, and we regularly meet up. as friends

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    <blockquote id="quote"><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica" id="quote">quote:<hr height="1" noshade id="quote"><i>Originally posted by Cerberus</i>

    I blocked my toilet up the other day.

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    <hr height="1" noshade id="quote"></blockquote id="quote"></font id="quote">I see

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    <blockquote id="quote"><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica" id="quote">quote:<hr height="1" noshade id="quote"><i>Originally posted by homers double</i>

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  • I went out with my last girlfriend for like 3 and a half years. We broke up about 4 months ago, and i have had no contact with her since. She wants to keep in touch, but I'm not really sure if thats a good idea or if I want to.
    She's a nice person, but sometimes its just easier to hate them. After all, she didn't put in half the amount of effort I was into the relationship. She has another boyfriend now as well, so I'm not sure how I'd react or what I'd say of i did ever see her. I'm not really annoyed about it, she's the kind of girl that just drifts from relationship into new relationship. She may or may not have cheated on me as well, she says she didn't, but she has lied before and everyone else seems to think she did. God now I'm thinking about it again, but like i said, its far easier to hate them and move to pastures green.

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  • mrblonde
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    my last relationship lasted 3 years and ended when she cheated on me, i have forgiven her and we keep in touch to a point, but its only half hearted in some respects because she is still with the guy she went with behind my back, and quite frankly i think i have every right to still feel like i was kicked in the balls over it tbh

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  • xc-andy
    xc-andy Posts: 174
    Me and the ex kept in touch for about 3 years after we split ...until i got a serious thing going with someone else...then i stopped calling. Then she got a serious thing , and she stopped calling me.
    Go figure.
    Its definatley the only reason i kept in touch.

    but if I was with a new girl and still bumming the ex , that wouldnt be fair on anyone involved. And i would have to make a decision.

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  • does this thread prove it's generally the women who screw up relationships?

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    <blockquote id="quote"><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica" id="quote">quote:<hr height="1" noshade id="quote"><i>Originally posted by Cerberus</i>

    I blocked my toilet up the other day.

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    I blocked my toilet up the other day.

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  • elmotheewokking
    elmotheewokking Posts: 2,279
    Not really. I screwed mine up. Lucky to have a second chance.

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    at least it hasn't rashed like my groin.
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  • I've screwed relationships up to. So I don't think so.

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  • <blockquote id="quote"><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica" id="quote">quote:<hr height="1" noshade id="quote"><i>Originally posted by xcandy</i>

    Me and the ex kept in touch for about 3 years after we split ...until i got a serious thing going with someone else...then i stopped calling. Then she got a serious thing , and she stopped calling me.
    Go figure.
    Its definatley the only reason i kept in touch.

    but if I was with a new girl and still bumming the ex , that wouldnt be fair on anyone involved. And i would have to make a decision.

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    <hr height="1" noshade id="quote"></blockquote id="quote"></font id="quote">dont get me wrong, im not with her ...yet, weve just been getting on really well recently and shes up for getting together/date type thing, i jus dont want her to go back to this guy... cos from what she told me bout him.... (i dont actually get why she stays in touch) You know? Im not going into it, but i dont want me efforts pis<s></s>sed on again like last time.



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    <blockquote id="quote"><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica" id="quote">quote:<hr height="1" noshade id="quote"><i>Originally posted by homers double</i>

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  • November
    November Posts: 130
    It's probably equal chances really. I've known as many women as men that screwed up their relationships. And in a fair amount of them it was both their faults.

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  • neil h
    neil h Posts: 499
    not intentionally, but it just seemed to happen. one day i just randomly got a txt from my ex of a year and a half.

    most bizarre.
  • Moriarti
    Moriarti Posts: 610
    women are the devil.


    not thats its a bad thing [;)]

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