Instead of pimp I need to comfort my ride

Well Wifey's actually.
The on going saga of her Cannondale R1000 Optimo being to painful/hard a ride is well documented.
Naturally now that she has exhausted all other opinions, namely spending £1500 on a lesser specced bike or £600 for a carbon frame, to swap over, we are left with what I originally said.
So can you good people recommend:-
A saddle - She currently has a fairly standard Fizik (I think) ladies saddle.
Comfortable bar tape.
Stem - Although this could be difficult as that is already carbon.
The on going saga of her Cannondale R1000 Optimo being to painful/hard a ride is well documented.
Naturally now that she has exhausted all other opinions, namely spending £1500 on a lesser specced bike or £600 for a carbon frame, to swap over, we are left with what I originally said.
So can you good people recommend:-
A saddle - She currently has a fairly standard Fizik (I think) ladies saddle.
Comfortable bar tape.
Stem - Although this could be difficult as that is already carbon.
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Bar tape - can't see that doing much.
Stem - again can't see that one design would be comfier than another.
I'd have thought that position and tyre width and tyre pressure would be much more important than your last 2 points ?
to the rats in the basement,
its not that far '
The pads aren't as comfy as I expected, so the thicker tape might help too. I use gloves as well, but they're fairly well worn.
+1..... I'm with "cougie"
Get her a well padded womens saddle - looks be damned - maybe one with a cuttout.
Wider tires - 700x25 maybe - less pressure
Bar tape - cork is good but like cougie says - "can't see it helping that much"
I'll reduce her tyre pressure, to what though?, I keep our bikes around 100psi, and her next set of tyres will be 25's instead of 23's.
It's just she has a great bike but isn't enjoying it as she should.
In fairness we went out in the week, and side by side she was shaking like Ric Waller in a pie shop.
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25s or even 28s if they will fit - make a massive difference - I can't even put into words what a difference it makes!