getting married

northernneil
northernneil Posts: 1,549
edited November 2009 in The bottom bracket
on saturday

starting to brick it now
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  • Bachelorhood (N) : Never making the same mistake once. :D Good luck enjoy buying the tandem.
    Neil
    Help I'm Being Oppressed
  • Yep - it's a killer on the nerves beforehand, but you'll find once everything kicks off then it's plain sailing.
    Hope it's a fantastic day.
  • Are we invited to your stag night?
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  • Harry B
    Harry B Posts: 1,239
    Is the bike up for sale yet?
  • Harry B wrote:
    Is the bike up for sale yet?

    she knows the score on that one non of my bikes - plural - will be for sale ! (she owns 2 herself though)
  • bigmat
    bigmat Posts: 5,134
    Enjoy the day! Main difference you should find afterwards is that you no longer have a wedding to arrange so more free time to get out on the bike. If she tries to suggest that being your wife gives her any more right to your time than being your bird, you'll need to nip that in the bud quick smart. :lol:

    Having kids is a different matter, that's when you'll kiss goodbye to your cycling time!
  • Tom Butcher
    Tom Butcher Posts: 3,830
    Harry B wrote:
    Is the bike up for sale yet?

    she knows the score on that one non of my bikes - plural - will be for sale ! (she owns 2 herself though)

    You'll be glad to know she's taking the wedding very seriously - I was in the supermarket and I heard her going over the running order for the service - isle, alter, hymn.

    it's a hard life if you don't weaken.
  • Are getting married in Leeds? If so, which church as my wife might be playing the organ for you?
  • jc4lab
    jc4lab Posts: 554
    Been happliy married for three years ...Got married 28 years ago though!.
    jc
  • daviesee
    daviesee Posts: 6,386
    Two things to remember:-

    It is ALWAYS your fault.

    Cycling = fitness; not cycling = heart attack.

    Hopefully she doesn't want you to die and you will be free to cycle :P
    None of the above should be taken seriously, and certainly not personally.
  • Ands
    Ands Posts: 1,437
    Harry B wrote:
    Is the bike up for sale yet?

    she knows the score on that one non of my bikes - plural - will be for sale ! (she owns 2 herself though)

    When I first got married, there were 3 of us (Me, Him, The Bike). Had to put a stop to it living in the bedroom tho. Some things you just have to drawn the line at :lol:

    Good luck for Saturday
  • Smokin Joe
    Smokin Joe Posts: 2,706
    She might not turn up.

    You'll look a right fool then.
  • OMG and can you imagine if you loose the ring :wink:
  • hopper1
    hopper1 Posts: 4,389
    Hope the weather is good, and you have a great day.

    I avoided any smart comments... :wink:
    Start with a budget, finish with a mortgage!
  • zanelad
    zanelad Posts: 269
    No need to brick it. It won't hurt anything, bar your wallet of course.

    I hope you'll both be as happy in your marriage as my wife is ours.
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    pnly joking, dear.
  • bigmat
    bigmat Posts: 5,134
    OMG and can you imagine if you loose the ring :wink:

    Better than it being too tight....

    I'll get me coat.
  • Call her on Saturday morning and tell her that you arent felling very well. Im not married but it has always worked with with my Manager :twisted:
  • Mothyman
    Mothyman Posts: 655
    enjoy the day....its the best man who is bricking it.... take everything in...watch her as she walks up the isle...look at her dad's tear in his eye and chin strutting as he hands her over...look around the guests faces.... wink at the best man and tell him he's doing well...sweep your hair to the left then the right between photos (you've got to look at them for the next 'x' years).it will all be over in a flash...enjoy it mate
  • NFMC
    NFMC Posts: 232
    Just don't get too drunk. The nerves and the fun kick in and I have absolutely no memory of my speech and I don't know how I got from the reception to the hotel (taxi, I found out since, even tyhough it was only 5 mins walk).

    And as for performing once back in the hotel room. Forget it.
  • Wave good bye to BJ'S unless its your birthday and you've treated her to a great holiday for getting you a nice pressie.
    Say hello to that look followed by "what do you mean is it ok if I go for a quck pint"
    Get a much riding in as possible cos the patter of little feet will now be her number 1 mission now the wedding is over.


    Hope you have the best day dude.

    Congratulations in advance :D
    Bianchi. There are no alternatives only compromises!
    I RIDE A KONA CADABRA -would you like to come and have a play with my magic link?
  • Just think...there must be something in it.

    Lots of people try it more than once. Indeed my father is on his third attempt. To think we're supposed to learn from our parents.

    Must be overdue a change
    There's no such thing as too old.
  • giant_man
    giant_man Posts: 6,878
    Don't understand why anyone gets married these days. Most people can live together easier and without the pressure of an institution such as marriage. I am not a fan of marriage, and was with my last girlfriend over 18 years which is longer than some (or most come to that) marriages.

    Waste of time and money imo.
  • Mothyman
    Mothyman Posts: 655
    i DO understand why people get married.....have a great time - and enjoy the honeymoon mate
  • Congratulations and Good luck at the weekend. I hope the weather stays good for you. Enjoy the day.
    I hope your other half is like mine she encourages me to go cycling rather than stops me. A lot of the time we are out cycling together. Ce what te last cysling plus says about that.
  • I got married back home in NZ in March. It was a fantastic day. Weather was perfect, everything went to plan and we have some fantastic memories of the day and the honeymoon afterwards (India and the Maldives).

    Enjoy the day, and take it all in. People say try not to get too drunk but given everyone wants to talk to you, you'll be putting your drink down and talking so much you won't be able to!

    That being said, I did manage to, but that's because I'd saved a bottle port I was given by the NZ Army 15 years ago and decided that my wedding day was the perfect day to drink it. What my family didn't drink, I did! I wasn't letting it going to waste! It all went downhill after that ... whoops! :oops:

    Seriously, don't panic, you're doing it for a reason and remember EVERYONE there is on your side so there's no need to worry or be nervous etc.

    Good luck, don't stand on her dress during the dance! :wink:

    Vive les All Blacks!!! [:D]
  • Mothyman
    Mothyman Posts: 655
    2 days to go.............

    :wink:
  • I got married back home in NZ in March. It was a fantastic day. Weather was perfect, everything went to plan and we have some fantastic memories of the day and the honeymoon afterwards (India and the Maldives).

    Enjoy the day, and take it all in. People say try not to get too drunk but given everyone wants to talk to you, you'll be putting your drink down and talking so much you won't be able to!

    That being said, I did manage to, but that's because I'd saved a bottle port I was given by the NZ Army 15 years ago and decided that my wedding day was the perfect day to drink it. What my family didn't drink, I did! I wasn't letting it going to waste! It all went downhill after that ... whoops! :oops:

    Seriously, don't panic, you're doing it for a reason and remember EVERYONE there is on your side so there's no need to worry or be nervous etc.

    Good luck, don't stand on her dress during the dance! :wink:

    We flew out to NZ and got married on Waiheke Island a couple of years ago. The best day of my life without a doubt and Im still as happy today!!
  • Nuggs
    Nuggs Posts: 1,804
    It will be the best day of your life. What is there to panic about? Even if things don't go 100% to plan, you'll still be married to the woman you love by the end of the day (except if they go really wrong).

    Like Mothyman says, make sure you take it in as it's over in a flash.[/i]
  • pneumatic
    pneumatic Posts: 1,989
    Right, here's some earnest advice from one who's been there some time:

    Sh@g like bunnies for a year or so

    then buy one or more books by Allan and Barbara Pease (they save marriages from disaster with simple truths delivered humorously).

    For example:

    Why Men Want Sex and Women Need Love: Unravelling the Simple Truth: Understanding What He Wants and What She Wants from a Relationship.

    More of the same at:

    http://www.amazon.co.uk/s/ref=nb_ss_0_1 ... llan+Pease


    Oh yes, and don't worry about breaking all the wedding presents; they are just things.


    Fast and Bulbous
    Peregrinations
    Eddingtons: 80 (Metric); 60 (Imperial)

  • geoff_ss
    geoff_ss Posts: 1,201
    Best thing I ever did. Been married to the same woman since 1967 and it's done nothing but enhance my life.

    She's tolerated my hobbies and passengered in trials sidecar outfits as well as racing dinghies. She's a great map reader and a keener cyclist than I am.

    I hope you'll be very happy. You'll enjoy the tandem too - we do.

    Geoff
    Old cyclists never die; they just fit smaller chainrings ... and pedal faster